It can be difficult to
open up about challenges in your life. Sometimes you don’t want to share
something private with the world. Other times you’re going through denial, and
talking about it would make it real. But then there’s the fear of stigma.
When it comes to
Alzheimer’s, that’s often what keeps people quiet, points out an article at the
website for Norwalk, CT, newspaper The Hour. Both people with Alzheimer’s and their caregivers go through
this, but some are fighting their way out of it. Opening up, letting
family, friends and colleagues know what’s happening and loosening the chains
of denial is a liberating decision. Nine times out of ten, people find that
almost everyone knows someone affected by Alzheimer's and has experiences to
share. This openness is necessary to fully understand symptoms, learn about
lifestyle changes and bring relief and support to caregivers.
In the article, one
man with Alzheimer’s shares his story of opening up. Still in an early stage
of the disease, he was able to teach others about it and advocate for early
diagnosis and for research funding.
Another man whose wife
had Alzheimer’s finally told his clients and co-workers so he wouldn’t have to
lie if he had to change his schedule. “It was the right thing to do,” he says.
“In fact, several co-workers opened up to me about family and friends with
Alzheimer’s.”
What about you? If you’ve
dealt with a difficult diagnosis, have you told friends and co-workers about
it? How did that go? How did you feel? If you haven’t told anyone, why not?
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